For women only: Feeling a little warm?
Last night, as I fought off yet another hot flash, I wondered: Where in the world did these come from now? (Couldn’t sleep, may as well think!)
Well, yes, I know where they come from at the age of 54. But I haven’t had to endure them for a while now. I don’t take prescription HRT — too dangerous, in my opinion. I’m not going to die from a hot flash. Besides that, the idea that we use urine from a pregnant mare seems completely goofy to me. In addition, I love animals, and the torture these kind animals are put through, along with their suffering offspring, is wrong on every count.
Years ago, I did take bioidentical hormones but then decided I felt that was a bit too risky also, given that I didn’t have really nightmarish symptoms. So I stopped taking them. Then I tried a few over-the-counter items, a couple things from my holistic doc, and I can’t remember what. Sorta/kinda helped but not entirely. (And, yes, I’m my own self-contained testing ground!)
My holistic doc suggested I try a bit of estrogen cream, but, while it was on order, my hot flashes diminished! Enough so that I didn’t feel the need to use it once it came in. And, after that, they pretty much were non-existent.
A few months ago, I’d read that relaxation techniques had helped eliminate or reduce hot flashes for a huge majority of women. But I didn’t really see the proof until last night. As I lay thinking, I realized what has happened:
I’d finally picked up a daily routine of a short meditation each morning. Something I’ve wanted to do for ages, but something that eluded me, the person with a thousand thoughts a minute! When I heard of Japa meditation, though, I had a workable method. I made a 108-bead string and worked my way – a repeated phrase per bead – through each morning. Very calming and grounding.
But, with closing on my new place a few weeks ago and moving (and unpacking and getting in an electrician and ….!), my meditation routine fell apart. Ah hah! I bet that’s it. How simple is that? Meditate for 15-20 minutes per day; no hot flashes. No side effects; no cost; no danger; no risk. I love it!
I may be totally off on this, but I really doubt it. And, once I get a couple weeks of meditation back under my belt, I’ll see what happens, and let you know. I love natural ways of approaching health, and I love even more when it’s proven to me once again that I’m on the right track.
Meditation truly appears to be an amazing solution to a lot of what ails us: from hot flashes to stress to sleepless nights to even managing pain. There are so many ways to meditate: Japa mediation, guided meditation audios, short, long, you name it. It’s well worth it to investigage what appeals to you and what works for you, and give it a try. You have only your health to save.



Hi Cindy, Although I can’t relate to you about hot flashes (yet), I share your desire to incorporate meditation in my life. I have been doing some in my once-a-week yoga class. It helped me get through the stress of the economic crunch last winter and it helps me deal with my two-year old daughter much more patiently. I look forward to finding out if it will help your hot flashes!
Hi Renee – I started, too, with meditation in my yoga classes. The more I read about it, the more I know it’s something we all would reap major benefits from, no matter what the circumstances. It felt so good to return to it again; it felt like my body/mind/soul breathed a deep sigh of contentment. It’s just getting in the routine that takes some work. I’m not a routine sort of person! But, just think if you get in that good habit now – you’ll be healthier, parenting will be easier (I remember those 2-year-old days. But just wait till the teenage years!), and maybe you’ll never be bothered my symptoms like hot flashes. Pretty good deal!